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First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church of Arlington

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ANNOUNCEMENTS

Spring Forward!  Daylight Saving Time Begins Sunday!

Issued March 12, 2010, in a First Parish e-mail.  To start or stop receiving announcement e-mails, send your request to weekly@firstparish.info

Weekly Announcements go out every Thursday evening.  Deadline for submissions is 9am Wednesday.

For longer articles that are not for upcoming events, send your material to spire@firstparish.infoThe Spire is issued monthly, and this month has a new format.


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Upcoming Services

Childcare for infants and toddlers available during Sunday morning worship.


Sunday, March 14th at 10 am, Alliance Sunday

Spring Forward!  Daylight Saving Time Begins!

Featured Speaker:  Awinja Otiato
Sustainable Development in Kenya and Boston

Awinja Otiato has an MBA in Social Policy Management with a concentration in Sustainable Development.  Awinja works with the Commonwealth of Massachusetts in the Department of Transitional Assistance, bringing the principles of sustainable development to state government.

Awinga writes:
"Working in Mass State government to help welfare participants find ways to overcome barriers and become economically self sufficient, I find myself drawing on my experiences growing up in the village in Kenya.  In the village, women have each other.  My children are your children.  In the American culture, 'good fences make good neighbors'.  Our work within DTA is to find ways to break down such cultural barriers and bring welfare participants together to collaborate with each other and look to accomplish the ultimate goal of achieving economic self sufficiency.  Poverty is a social injustice.... 'Knowledge Advancing Social Justice' is the motto of Heller School for Social Policy & Management at Brandeis University where I received my degree.  The motto calls for each one of us to find a sphere of influence, whether large or small, and to use it to break the cycle of social injustice.  Working within the state government is my sphere of influence."


Audio Recordings of the Sunday Sermon are now available again at Sunday Sermons.  You will need to login to hear the sermon.  While you are on the audio recording page, click on the sermon that you would like to hear.  Please note, the whole service has to download before it begins playing; this can take 1 - 3 minutes, even on a fast connection.

 

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Friday, March 5, 7pm-9pm:  Mad Cowboy

First Parish's Green Sanctuary/Climate Change Group is sponsoring three films that will raise our consciousness about issues of food production and consumption.

The second film in the series is Mad Cowboy, based on Howard Lyman's book, Mad Cowboy:  Plain Truth from the Cattle Rancher Who Won't Eat MeatClick here to see more about Howard Lyman's book.

There will be time for discussion following the films, and we will be sharing a meal and recipes on the March 19th event.  You will learn about the impact of food production on our environment, how our meat and vegetables are grown, why people eat what they eat, and strategies for more mindful eating.

For further information contact BillGardiner@verizon.net


 

Upcoming STAR Programs:  Spirit, Transformation, Adventure, Reflection

The purpose of STAR Programs is to support and enrich spiritual growth in the First Parish community.

Pre-registering helps our planners and facilitators, so please sign up for programs you intend to attend.  To register, contact the church office at churchoffice@firstparish.info or 781-648-3799 x. 10.  Some programs have a fee.  If this fee (or any other detail) presents an obstacle, please talk with Marta (marta@firstparish.info).  STAR programs are open to all, and we want to know about anything that makes attending difficult.


 

Discussion Group on Spiritual Evolution
Tuesdays, March 16 & 23, April 13 & 27, and May 11 & 25, 7-9 pm

Dick King, Sandy King, and John Hodges invite you to join a program of reading George Vaillant's 2008 book, Spiritual Evolution:  A Scientific Defense of Faith, and sharing relevant stories from our life journeys.  We will discuss Vaillant's claim that positive emotions – including trust, love, hope, forgiveness, and compassion – are essential to human survival and that they form the neurobiological foundation for our cultural and individual development of human spirituality.

This group will meet in the Parlor from 7 to 9 p.m. on Tuesday evenings March 16 & 23, April 13 & 27, and May 11 & 25.  Attendance at the March 16 meeting is required, so that everyone can start off in the same conversation.

Pre-registration by Monday, March 8, was required.  If you have a registration question, contact the church office, at churchoffice@firstparish.info or 781-648-3799 x. 10.  We will ask participants who can to help cover the cost of the book, which will be no more than $15 and probably less.  If you have questions about this program, please contact Dick King at richmking@comcast.net


 

Creating a Legacy:  Making a Record of Your Life
Sundays, March 21 and March 28 (NOTE NEW DATE), 2-5 pm
Register by March 12

Last summer Sue Cross spoke during a Sunday service about the powerful effects, both for ourselves and for those who follow us, of intentionally leaving a legacy:  creating records of our lives and of the objects, ideas, and values that are important to us.  Now she and Kathy Kemp are offering a "how to" workshop on creating life reviews, ethical wills, heritage scrapbooks, final wishes, and audio/video recordings of your life's most important stories.  You will leave with an audio recording of a legacy conversation, and with the inspiration and tools to continue your own legacy practice.

Pre-registration by Friday, March 12, is required and there will be a materials fee of $25.  If this fee causes hardship, please talk with Marta Flanagan to get a waiver.  To register, contact the church office at churchoffice@firstparish.info or 648-3799 x. 10.  We will meet on two Sundays, March 21 and March 28 (date changed from 4/11), from 2-5 pm in the Parlor.


 

What's Next?  Life When Work No Longer Dominates, with Kit Hayes
Thursdays, April 1, 8, & 15, 7-9 pm

Many Americans get to a stage of life when work no longer dominates their time.  What then?  How do we decide what to do with this precious gift?  How do we deal with the challenges of a self-structured life, and with the uncertainties of modern economic realities?

If you are retired or see retirement anywhere on the horizon, please plan to join Kit Hayes and other First Parish people for a conversation about how to create rich and meaningful lives post-career.  We will meet on three Thursday evenings, starting April 1, in the Damon Room.  To register, contact the church office at churchoffice@firstparish.info or 648-3799 x. 10.


A Quiet Retreat Day with Marta Flanagan
Saturday, April 24, 9:00 am - 4:30 pm
Henderson House in Weston, MA
Registration by April 15 required

To love and to know ourselves as loved is part of the spiritual life.  Love involves presence, action, forgiveness and humility.  Love also involves radical action.  Theologian Carter Heyward has written, "To say 'I love you' is to say 'Let the revolution begin!'"  Love can be counterintuitive and countercultural.  Love is also the attribute most commonly ascribed to God.

Love is the theme of this quiet day of retreat in which you will consider questions such as:

  • When have you loved well?
  • When have you been loved well?
  • Who or what are you being called to love at this time in your life?

Often times what we call "retreats" wind up being forums, workshops or meetings.  On April 24 Marta will facilitate another honest-to-goodness retreat.  She will frame our time together, which will include silence, prayer, and journaling.  We will share simple meals.  Please wear comfortable clothing (bring layers so you can go outdoors) and bring journals and pens, yoga mats, and anything else that might add to your day.

A fee of $55 covers breakfast, lunch and rental of the comfortable facilities at Henderson House.  If this fee creates an obstacle please contact Marta (minister@firstparish.info).  Please be sure to register by Thursday, April 15.

 

Saturday, March 6th:  First Parish Blood Drive

American Red Cross Sponsor of the Year!

We hope you've heard the amazing news that First Parish has been chosen by the American Red Cross as Community Blood Drive Sponsor of the Year for the Commonwealth.  For his work with blood drives, NECN recognizes our own John Hodges.  Come to the next blood drive, Saturday, March 6th, and be a part of this wonderful community service event.

Be a donor or a volunteer!  Bring a friend and just be there to hold hands and chat.  Donor hours are 8am - 2pm and we recommend you call 1-800-GIVE-LIFE (1-800-448-3543) to make an appointment at your convenience or ask any questions related to your health or about donation.  We're always delighted to welcome new volunteers for advance planning and arrangements, for setup at 6a on Saturday, with donors all day, cleanup from 2:30p - 4:30p, and follow up after.

Contact John Hodges, jcfh@alum.mit.edu, 617-943-4399, or be a welcome surprise for an hour or the day.

Thanks, all!

 

Wednesday, March 10th, 7pm:  Cakes for the Queen of Heaven
Come Explore Female Religious History and Its Meanings for Our Lives

Tina Schultz and Peggy Gardiner will lead a program on female religious history and spirituality based on the newly revised Cakes for the Queen of Heaven curriculum.  If you are a woman who would like to lean more about our female religious heritage and share stories with other First Parish women of all ages, this program is for you.

This seminar meets on four Wednesdays – February 24, March 3, March 10, & March 17 – from 7:00 to 8:30 in the Parlor.

 

Sunday, March 14th, 11:30 to 1 in the Parlor:  Open Discussion with Members of Neighboring UU Churches on Partnership Church Programs and Travel

Informal gathering on congregational partnerships and travel to Transylvania with Rodger Mattlage (First Parish, Concord) and other partnership church committee members of neighboring UU churches.  Hear how other churches establish and maintain their partnership church relationship.  Learn how to join or organize congregational pilgrimages, choir tours, and youth and service tours to Transylvania.  Listen to other UU members describe their experiences visiting Budapest UU churches, viewing significant UU sites in Cluj, Torda, and Deva, and, most importantly, staying with Transylvanian Unitarian families during a home stay in a small rural village — all organized by the UU Partnership Church Council.  Please come with your questions.  All are welcome.

John Burt
Michelle Deakin
Jo Anne Preston
Working Group for a Partnership Church

 

Monday, March 15th, 7pm:  Compassionate Communication "Old 10" Group

The ongoing NVC class is reading and practicing with a new text and invites new members.  Have you ever been in the middle of an ordinary conflict and wished you knew what to say or wished later that you hadn't said what you did?  By learning some skills in conflict management, we can make everyday conflicts, even the tougher ones, go better, often much better.

NVC teaches just a few vital skills:

  1. How to make and state observations of the problem that are free of evaluation and judgement;
  2. How to request doable change instead of making global demands; and
  3. How to use simple statements of your everyday needs and feelings to humanize situations.

Of course, there are many chapters on each of these, and practice helps. In class, we practice.

Some have said that learning to state feelings and needs is basically "therapy." That might imply a belief that feelings and needs have no place in everyday interactions.  However, basic human needs and feelings are present constantly in human lives, as neuroscience shows, whether they get noticed or mentioned or not.  And they are playing a part in every conflict.  To have them plainly stated, without blaming, can explain a lot when people are trying to understand each other.

Therapy, as I know it, is for a reexamination of our history and of our family of origin to see how they have shaped us.  NVC is not about history.  Everyone starts in the present, and stays in the present.

Having studied NVC, I find most of my conflicts and other interactions are more conscious, and a couple of times I have amazed my friends or family.  I am often a nicer driver, as well.  If your everyday conflicts are not what you want them to be, I hope you will give this a try.  Or learn it to model it to the high-conflict members of your circle:  NVC is very contagious.  The Hartford UUs are learning it to teach it in the school system.  I of course think it would be good for world peace.

Here is a "before and after" example from a family I know:

  • BEFORE:  "Why do you always have to leave your stuff all over the place?  It is driving me nuts.  Sally is coming over for dinner in 20 minutes so you better get this living room cleaned up, pronto."
  • AFTER:  "I am looking in the living room and I see 3 pairs of your shoes, a jacket, and a pile of your mail on the sofa.  I feel tense because I need to make the house comfortable for Sally when she gets here for dinner.  Would you be willing to put your things away before Sally comes in 20 minutes?

You would be surprised by the number of "yes" answers you can get with this method.  I hope you will come and check it out.

— Joyce Thompson


We meet every other week in the Pierce Room from 7 to 9pm to discuss communicating for connection.

For comments or questions you may contact Carolyn Stevens carolyn2stevens@gmail.com or Joyce Thompson jthomkiwi@aol.com

 

Tuesday, March 16th, 10am-2pm:  Drop in and Q ` uilt!

The quilt for the fair in November will be available on a drop-in basis for those who can quilt during the day to put in their stitches.  Bring a bag lunch if you want to stay during lunch time.  No need to let us know, just come.  Contact Jean Nagle for questions:  jsnagle@comcast.net

 

Thursday, March 18, April 22 and May 20, 7-9pm:  Group Spiritual Direction
Facilitated by Marta Flanagan

Most people find it useful to have help on their journey, as they move closer to that Mystery many call God.  Spiritual Direction helps people notice and respond to the movement of the Holy as experienced in prayer, meditation and the events of ordinary life.  In spiritual direction we can look honestly at our relationship with the Holy as it is lived out in everyday life.  We ask questions like "What is of sacred value in my life right now?" "How is my relationship with the Holy?" and "What is the Spirit inviting me to do?"

Group size is limited and anyone interested is asked to write one paragraph explaining why they want to participate in group spiritual direction.  You may leave your paragraph at the church office in Marta's mail slot or email her at minister@firstparish.info

Before coming to First Parish Marta worked part time as a spiritual director seeing 29 directees each month at the Bethany House of Prayer in Arlington as well as a handful of individuals out of her home in Vermont.  Marta was trained as a spiritual director at Mercy Center in Burlingame, California in 2000.

 

Friday, March 19, 6pm-9pm:  Botany of Desire

The Green Sanctuary/Climate Change Team of First Parish Unitarian Universalist in Arlington is showing the film "Botany of Desire" Friday, March 19 starting at 7:15 pm.  Click here to see more about the Botany of Desire documentary.

We will be starting with a pot luck supper at 6:00.  We will also be serving baked potatoes, and there will be a demonstration on how to prepare potatoes in the microwave.

The film is based on Michael Pollan's book Botany of Desire.  In the film Mr. Pollan explores the dynamic relationship between humans and four plants:  the apple, the potato, the tulip, and cannabis.  In the film we will see how humans have spread the apple across the planet, the impact of the potato on political history, the multi-billion dollar tulip industry, and the ingenious methods of cannabis growers.

For further information about the showing contact BillGardiner@verizon.net

 

Friday, March 19, 7:30 pm:  Earth-Based Ostara Celebration

The earth based group will host an Ostara celebration on Friday March 19th in the parlor.  Setup begins at 7:00 pm with the event starting at 7:30 pm.  For more information please contact Mandy Coutts at thebigsalad@yahoo.com.

 

Sunday, March 21st, 7:15pm:  Women's Book Group

March 21 - Let the Great World Spin by Colum McCann

April 18 - Brooklyn:  A Novel by Colm Toibin
(comes out March 2 in paperback, just in time)

May 16 - Othello by William Shakespeare

Always the third Sunday 7:15-9pm in the Damon Room.  Contact Jean Nagle for further information
(e-mail is jsnagle@comcast.net). 

 

Saturday, April 3rd:  Sign up for the First Parish Passover Seder

Please join us at the First Parish Passover Seder on Saturday, April 3rd.  All are welcome, but advance sign up is necessary.  Sign up will be held after church during the month of March for the event and for pot luck contributions that all participants are asked to bring.  Exact details available when you sign up.

The service is short and intended to be suitable for all ages.  The participants typically include families with little kids, families with teens, extended families, couples and singles.  All kinds of families are warmly welcome.  We usually number from about 40 people to over 100 people.  Walk ins are not possible.  Everyone must sign up and commit to making a dish in advance.

Our Hagaddah is a mix of traditional and new elements and is somewhat to the left of the Reconstructionists.  It is feminist, egalitarian and participatory.

We do the Seder as a potluck, with easy recipes that are passed out at Coffee Hour when people sign up.  Everyone is asked to contribute to the meal.  We charge a small fee to cover wine and Seder plate items.  The meal is in the spirit of kosher for Passover, but is not strictly kosher.  There will be vegetarian and meat options available.

If you are interested, please contact Rachael Stark at refdesk@world.std.com, Jessica Farman at jfarmot@yahoo.com or Katherine McNeill at mcneillharman@yahoo.com.  Advance registration is a must!


Sunday Afternoon, April 11th, 2pm:  All-Church Talent Show 2010

Here's your chance to shine under the spotlight at First Parish.  On Sunday, April 11, 2010, starting at 2:00 p.m., the music committee will host this year's talent revue.  It's not just about music any more.  If you sing, play, compose, could give a dramatic reading of your poetry, or have some unique performance talent you'd like to share, please contact Dorothy May (doromay@comcast.net) or Jean Ward (jrward@alum.mit.edu).  Acts should be approximately three minutes in length, not to exceed five minutes.  All proceeds go for the First Parish Instrument Fund.  Let your talent shine at this great community event!

The "Musicale" talent show isn't just about music any more:

Come see what your First Parish friends and neighbors do when there is an audience watching!

Check with Jean Renard Ward or Dorothy May if you'd like to share your performance talents.


Saturday evening, May 1st:  Home Cookin' Coffee House

Andrew Leonard has lined up a great evening of jazzy musical entertainment.  Food and modest libations will be served.

All proceeds from these events will benefit First Parish's Instrument Maintenace Fund.


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Religious Education News

Family Dance, scheduled for March 13th, has been CANCELLED.

Field Trip:  Grade Two (Web of Life studies) students will be doing on a field trip on Sunday March 14th to greet baby animals.  Parents, please bring your child directly to the Vestry - not into the worship service - at 10:00 a.m. to meet with teachers Bob Fowkes and David Desjardins for the trip.

Saturday, March 13th:  New teacher orientation, Damon Room, 9:00 a.m.

Sunday, March 14th:  Spring teaching term begins!  After dismissal from the worship service most children (not PreK or Grade 2) will go directly to the Bailey Room to meet their new teachers and to learn what's new in the RE Wing for spring.

Sunday, March 14th:  OWL at 7:00 pm in the Children's Chapel and Tobey Lounge

Sunday, March 14th:  COA at 7:00 pm in the Parlor

Easter Egg Hunt:  Helpers needed to count contributions, hide eggs, act as door monitors and clean up squad.  Fliers will be available at church for more information on ways to help and who to contact.  Hint:  Look for someone wearing bunny ears.

Parents:  Please note a workshop at the UU Winchester Society on Tuesday

March 16:  "Raising and Teaching Resilient Children".  For more information please go to:  thecreativesoulofchildren.org

 

Youth Group Announcements

Sunday, 3/14, 5:30 pm:  New Orleans Trip '09 participants:  Meeting with youth from the Melrose UU Church, who are going to New Orleans this April to work with Operation Nehemiah.  All trip participants (youth and advisors) from the 2009 trip are welcome to attend.  Meet in the Bailey Room, and please be on time.

Sunday, 3/14, 7:00 pm:  Youth Group

The Family Dance scheduled for this Saturday has been CANCELED.  We apologize for any inconvenience.

Save the Date!  Youth Group Music Benefit - Saturday, April 10th, 2010!


"Don't ask yourself what the world needs.
Ask yourself what makes you come alive.
And then go do that.
Because what the world needs is people who have come alive."
~ Howard Thurman

 

A Loss in the First Parish Community

Libby Snowden died on Friday afternoon, March 5 at the Park Avenue Nursing Home with her family by her side.  Libby was mother to Kay Snowden and Kay's husband, James Lechefsky, and grandmother to Marin and Erica Fingerle.

Kay, Jim, Marin and Erica invite friends to visiting hours at their home at 26 Norfolk Road in Arlington this Monday and Tuesday evening, 6-9 pm.  The visiting hours will be a kind of sitting shiva, an opportunity to offer condolences and share memories of Libby.

A memorial service for Libby Snowden will be conducted at her home church of many decades in Darien, Connecticut later this week.

Please keep the family in your thoughts and prayers.

Rev. Marta Flanagan

 

We are shining!

Our stewardship is going very well, and we are 80% of the way toward our goal.  This year's socials were a great opportunity to spend time together and participate in the work of crafting our new mission statement.  We are hoping to receive the remaining pledges soon so that the Parish Committee can begin their final planning for next year's budget.

If you have already pledged, thank you! If you have not yet done so, now is the time-every pledge counts and with your help First Parish will continue to come up shining next year and beyond.

How can you get your pledge in?

  • We can take your pledge at the stewardship table at coffee hour
  • Print the Campaign Brochure - complete the pledge card, and drop it in the box by the office or mail to the church.  Address:  630 Mass Ave Arlington – note on envelope:  ATTENTION STEWARDSHIP DRIVE
  • Call Carolyn Hodges 617-354-4868 or Jerry Silberman 781-643-8647

 

Second Chance for Mission Feedback

The mission statement group thanks everyone who gave feedback on the draft mission statement after the service last week.  We got lots of good ideas and information.  There will be a second feedback time after the service this Sunday, March 14th.  We decided to hold off on revisions until after this Sunday, and here is the draft mission as it still stands.

We choose to be a welcoming liberal religious community.
We encourage each other on our spiritual journeys.
We support one another through the changes in our lives.
We live our faith by challenging the inequities of our time.
Upheld by joy and called to love, thus do we covenant together.


 

Feeling in-Spired?

On April 4, Easter Sunday, members of First Parish will receive, in addition to the joys of each other’s fellowship, the debut issue of a new – and we hope, improved – Spire.  The new Spire will be a printed version, handed out to each family, and will include a message from our pastor, parish news, committee reports, news on music and religious education, essays, and a calendar of events.

This new Spire, which is being produced on a trial basis, will be distributed on the first Sunday of each month through June.  The Spire will continue to be available in its present form on the parish website.

Please note that the new publication date is the first Sunday of each month, not the first day of the month.  The deadline for submissions for the April issue will be March 25.  Please send all articles, as usual, to spire@firstparish.info.  Help us make this new beginning for the Spire a memorable one!

— David Desjardins and Jennifer Davis-Kay

 

Easter Flowers

As is our custom, First Parish members will give the flowers for our Easter Sunday service, April 4.  They will be used to decorate the Sanctuary during the service, then you may take them home.  We order them from Wilson Farm in Lexington.  Available are:

  • Single Stem Easter Lilies (5+ blooms, 6-inch pot), $7.50;
  • Double Stem Easter Lilies (7-9 blooms, 8-inch pot), $17.50;
  • Blue, Pink, or White Hydrangeas, (5-inch pot), $6;
  • Daffodils (6-inch pot), $5; and
  • Daffodils (8-inch pot), $11.

There are also other choices if you wish.  Please contact Marilyn Jackson at coffee hour or at marilyn448@gmail.com or at 781-316-1686.  Checks should be made out to the Alliance, First Parish, and given or sent to Marilyn at the time you order.

 

Lay Ministry Opportunities for Interested Parishioners

Lay Ministry is an important function of our church that helps to extend the pastoral care of our minister, enhances our church as a caring community, and provides outreach to parishioners in need.  Recently the Parish Committee appointed a Shared Ministry Committee to work with our minister, the Rev. Marta Flanagan, in selecting parishioners who are interested in serving as Lay Ministers.  This committee consists of Peggy Gardiner, John Laurenson, Angel Seibring and Barbara Tosti.

The Lay Ministry consists of two groups.  The first is the Wider Network of Care.  These are members of the congregation who are interested in periodically providing meals, sending cards, running errands, or baby-sitting children for parishioners who are in need.  We hope that all church members and friends will participate in the Wider Network of Care.

The second group is the Lay Ministers who serve in conjunction with our minister to provide support to those in the congregation who are adjusting to change, loss, illness or death.  They meet with the minister once a month on a Wednesday evening to further the church’s mission of a community of care and concern.  They coordinate the Wider Network of Care.  Lay Ministers commit to a two year term, providing approximately 15 hours a month to those in need.  They attend a mandatory training session on May 21 and 22.  Additional information is available in the Lay Ministry brochure, and on the Lay Ministry section of the church website at Members/SharedMinistry.

This spring, persons who are interested in becoming lay ministers must fill out an application and reference forms.  Selected applicants will be interviewed by the Shared Ministry Committee in conjunction with the minister.  If you are interested in becoming a Lay Minister, please fill out an application and forward it to the Shared Ministry Committee before the deadline, March 28.  Applications are available on the Lay Ministry section of the church website.  If you have questions direct them to the Shared Ministry Committee at sharedministry@firstparish.info

 

Would You Like to Lead a Summer Service?

Do you have a project, idea, or experience you would like to share with the congregation?  If so, the Worship Task Force (Marta Flanagan, Lori Kenschaft, Dick King, Sandy King, and Eric Segal) wants to hear from you.  Whether you've led services before or not, you're welcome to propose a suggestion.  If you need help developing your idea into a full worship service, we are available to help.

Please send a paragraph describing your image to marta@firstparish.info.  This isn't a commitment — just a chance for us to talk together about possibilities.

 

Applications Are Now Being Accepted for the Nora Catherine Tosti Memorial Scholarship

The fund was established to help people who, like Nora, want to pursue careers in health care or child care at the Certificate or Associate Degree level.  Although candidates for Bachelor’s Degrees will be considered, those pursuing Certificates or Associate Degrees will have first preference.  This scholarship is open to adults as well as new high school graduates.  The $1000 scholarship will be awarded to a current or former resident of Arlington.

The Nora Catherine Tosti Memorial Scholarship will be awarded without regard to race, gender, nationality, religion, disability or sexual orientation.

Applications must be filed by March 1, 2010.

To get an application, contact First Parish member Barbara Tosti at abtosti@rcn.com

 

Calling a Young Adult of the Unitarian-Universalist Persuasion!

Are you someone who wants to explore your faith with other UU’s?  Do you want an expense paid trip to be in the company of people who are seekers, thinkers, do-ers and like to have fun at the same time?  Are you at least 18 years old but no older than 24?  If so, think about your summer plans and consider applying for the Mary Davis General Assembly Scholarship.  UU General Assembly 2010 will take place in Minneapolis, Minnesota from Wednesday, June 23rd – Sunday, June 27th.  For an application, or to find out more, please contact Alliance member Lisa Heisterkamp Davis at southpacific@comcast.net or Religious Education Director, Tina Schultz at tina@firstparish.info.  Also check out the information on the web at:  uua.org/events/generalassembly



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Music News

Report

The Newburyport combined choirs service went very well, and they will be coming to Arlington to sing with us on March 21.  20 of our singers attended the 10:30am service:  even Diane had fun and went out for lunch afterwards.  We sang from the historic balcony, with each choir on one side of the organ, wearing red robes (and they wearing blue robes).

Schedule This Week

There will be no Chalice Singers Thursday rehearsal this week at 5:30pm.

There will be no rehearsals after the Sunday service this week, since the choir does not sing on the Alliance service, and Sarah Tocco and Cheri Minton are the organizers of the music.

Still Missing

We are still missing one large cymbal on a tripod metal stand from the choir room. 

Youth

Music For Young Children

This group for children up to grade 1 meets in the Children's Chapel on Sundays from 11:45-12:15 (during coffee hour) on two Sundays per month leading up to Easter.  Complete dates include:  3/21, 3/28, + performing in the 10am Intergenerational Easter Service on April 4.  This group is led by Music Director Laura Prichard and students Rowan Wheeler and Allison Stillerman.

Chalice Singers Youth Choir

New members always welcome from grades 2-8.

Intergenerational

Orchestra

Contact Laura Prichard with questions at laura@prichard.net - our Spring performance is on April 4 (Easter).  The full Symphonic Band will play twice in May (and rehearse in April).

Flutes

The Flute Loops is an intergenerational group of flute players who will be playing in the Sunday services on April 4 (Easter) and April 11.

Our regular Sunday rehearsals this Winter will be from 12:15-1pm on the following dates:  3/14, 3/21 & 3/28 at 12:15pm.

The Flute Loops are co-led by Mies Boet-Whitaker and Laura Prichard.

Jazz

The First Parish Jazz group will perform during a few Sunday services this Spring.  If you are a jazz musician and would like to join the group, please contact trombonist Chris Botos at cbotos@acm.org

Adult & Advanced Students

Adult Choir

This group is open to adults and students in grades 7-12.  We rehearse on Thursdays (8-9:30pm) and meet on Sundays for a 9am warmup.

Festival Choir

Our Spring music service will feature three selections from the English cathedral tradition for choirs and organ.  Music will include:  Parry's coronation anthem I Was Glad, Stanford's beautiful miniature Beati quorum via, and a piece new to our choir:  John Stainer's I Saw the Lord.

We will be joined by the Newburyport UU Choir for our Sunday, March 21 service.

Anyone may join the choir for this special music, and those pieces will be rehearsed from 8:30-9pm on the following dates:  2/11, and 2/25.

Info Links

For schedule information about Sunday service music:  Music/FPAschedule.html .  To join a Music email list for weekly announcements/practice materials:  Music/music_lists.html (Username:  firstparish and the usual password)

 

Giving First¹

Giving First Will Support Arlington Food Pantry in March

The First Parish Giving First recipient for March will be the Arlington Food Pantry, which has provided food and necessities to low-income families since 1990.  Funds are overseen by Arlington’s Department of Human Services; however, all the work at the Pantry is done by volunteers in space provided by the Church of Our Savior on Marathon St.  The Pantry provides food to over 340 residents in over 150 Arlington families and is seeing an average of 8 new residents per month.  Costs are increasing and donations are not able to keep up.

Many organizations, including our congregation, send volunteers and donations of non-perishable food to the Pantry.  Cash donations are used to purchase other needs such as toothbrushes, soap, toilet paper, special dietary needs and perishable foods, and to pay a small rental fee to Church of Our Savior.  We all know that visits to the grocery store are more and more expensive.  As the number of people needing help increases, please consider expanding our support of the Pantry through Giving First.

¹Giving First is a Social Justice program at First Parish, where 25% of our non-pledge Sunday morning offerings is given to a different charity each month.

 

New Website Available for Year-End Donations

This year you have the option of making special year-end donations to First Parish at YourDonationPlace.com.  The site is available 24/7 during the holiday season.  We hope this convenient method of giving will appeal to both regular contributors and to members who traditionally make contributions on a seasonal or annual basis.  Simply go to YourDonationPlace.com and follow the onscreen instructions to make a donation and print a confirmation page for your records.  Secure donation services on the site are provided by Vanco Services, the same company that processes electronic donations for First Parish and more than 10,000 other nonprofit organizations and churches. 

 

Green Sanctuary Group Recommended Books

The Green Sanctuary Group has books that they are recommending on display at the Social Justice table this Sunday.  They would be excellent presents, and the Group is selling them at cost.  Al Gore's new book, Our Choice, will be used for a book study group to be sponsored by the Green Sanctuary Group in April.  There are also Food Rules:  An Eater’s Manual by Michael Pollan, 64 short rules that reinforce his food manifesto:  "Eat Food. Not Too Much. Mostly Plant.", Eating Animals by Jonathan Safran Foer, 18th on the New York Times Nonfiction Best Seller List in January, and the substantially revised bible of climate change Plan B 4.0 by Lester Brown that we studed two years ago.

We are looking for members to help make the church and our lives more in keeping with good environmental practices.  We look forward to talking with you.

 

Arlington Food Pantry

Now cocoa is on the list of wants and, as always, juice, personal items, jelly and peanut butter.  Donation boxes are by the front door and the office door.

Monetary donations can be sent to:  The Arlington Food Pantry, Department of Human Services; 670R Mass Ave., Arlington, MA 02476

Contact Jean Nagle for questions.

 

12:30pm to 2:30pm:  Spire Writers Group

The Spire Writers' Group—for people who like to write and want to develop their writing in the company of other writers at First Parish—gathers monthly, usually on the second Sunday of each month, from 12:30 to 2:30 p.m., in the Damon Room (next to Tina's office in the RE wing).  Bring writings to share, if you like, or just come and join in...  We do brief writing exercises, give critiques when requested, and discuss the craft of writing.  The group is appropriate for all levels, prose or poetry, no matter what our writing styles or experience.  All are welcome.  If you like to write, or want to explore the possibility, please come join us. 

 

First Parish Meditation Group

Please join us in the First Parish Meditation Group.  We hold drop-in groups Mondays, gather at 6:00pm and start at 6:15 (in the Damon room) and Sundays, gather at 9:00am and start at 9:10 (next door at the Senior Center at Maple and Academy St)  We sit for 35 minutes in the style of Vipassana (Insight) Buddhist meditation, and beginners are welcome.  By focusing on mind/body sensations in meditation, it is possible to become more mindful in daily life.   ALSO – 2 ongoing discussion groups meet one Sunday night each month.  A waiting list is now forming to join a group.  For more information, contact Lynn Rosenbaum or e-mail meditation@firstparish.info

 

Arlington Workers in Transition

Arlington Workers in Transition is an ongoing group for anyone interested in help with networking and coaching through their job search activities.  We meet Tuesdays, 10am-noon, in the 4th floor conference room at Robbins Library next door to the church.  Questions?  Contact Stewart Jester at 643-6123 or dstewartjester@aol.com

 

A Course in Miracles

A group has formed to read and discuss A Course in Miracles (ACIM) on Wednesday evenings from 7:00-8:30.  We meet in the Damon Room (Carlton's old office).  If you are interested in joining us, please bring a copy of ACIM , available at major booksellers such as Amazon, as well as from The Foundation for Inner Peace (acim.org).  Please contact Cheryl Dressler at cheryl.dressler@comcast.net with any questions you may have about the meeting. 

 

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General Information Included in Each Sunday's Order of Service

First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church of Arlington
630 Massachuetts Avenue, Arlington, MA 02476
Parish Office Phone:  781–648–3799
Website:  firstparish.info
e–mail:  churchoffice@firstparish.info

Office Hours

The deadline to submit items for next week's announcements e-mail is Wednesday at 9 am.  Office Hours:  Weekdays 10 to 4 except Wednesday 1 to 7

Requests for verbal announcements in the following Sunday's worship are due each week by noon on Wednesday.

Joan Dyer, Office Manager


Serving Us  
Minister:  Rev. Marta Flanagan Parish Manager:  Joan Dyer
Office Assistant:  Andrea Caplan
Music and Children's Choir Director:  Laura Prichard Dir. of Religious Education:  Tina Schultz
Youth Advisor:  Marcie Griffith
Host(s):  Membership Committee Nursery Coordinator:  Amy Rogers
Name Tag Table:  Members of Lay Ministry Sunday Assistant:  Mayuen Angara

Parish Committee Members
Michael Friedman, Co–chair Alan Linov, Co–chair Josh Davis
Louise Strayhorn Arleen Kulin Anne Goodwin
Sara Whitford Josh Stillerman Wendy Page

 

 
Are you new?
If you are new to First Parish, we are glad you joined us this morning.  You are invited to join us for fellowship and friendship time following the service.  Representatives from the Membership Committee staff our Information Table located in the Vestry.  Please stop by so that we may better welcome you and answer any questions you may have.  Fill out a salmon–colored Newcomer Information sheet so you may receive a copy of our newsletter the Spire and other communications.  Newcomer Information Sheets are located both at the Information Table and in the back of the Sanctuary.
Membership
You are welcome to become a member of First Parish by signing the Membership Book in the presence of one of the ministers or the Parish Clerk.  First Parish has designated the last Sunday of the month as Membership Signing Sunday.  The signing of the membership book takes place in the foyer.  Becoming a member at First Parish means that you have found a spiritual home here and are ready to commit yourself to membership by offering your support through regular and sustained gifts of your time, energy and money as you are able.  Check our announcements for the most up–to–date schedule of Signing Sunday.
Parents of Small Children
Parents of babies and toddlers who have difficulty remaining quiet during the service:  please make use of our Nursery or listen to the service broadcast in the Vestry adjoining the main entrance.  The ushers can direct you to the appropriate location.
Nursery & Sunday School
Our Nursery is open from 10:00am to 11:30am for babies and toddlers up to age 3.  Sunday School for Pre–K through Grade 7 goes to 11:30am.  Children through Grade 3 should be picked up at that time.  Grades 4 and up will be dismissed for Coffee/Friendship hour.  High School youth and Grade 8 meet Sunday evenings from 7–8:30pm


This is a Welcoming Congregation
warmly and openly welcoming to gay, lesbian, bisexual & transgender people.

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